Sideways Cross Necklace Meaning: Why the Cross Is Worn Horizontally

The cross is the most recognised symbol of the Christian faith, and one of the oldest pieces of jewellery people still wear every day. In recent years a quieter version has become just as familiar: the sideways cross, set horizontally along a fine chain.

Here’s what the cross means, why some people wear it sideways, and why it’s such a traditional gift for christenings, baptisms and confirmations.

What does the cross mean?

For Christians the cross is a reminder of the crucifixion and resurrection of Jesus — a symbol of faith, sacrifice, hope and new life. Christians have worn it as a sign of belief for many centuries, and today it’s worn across every Christian tradition, as well as by many people as a personal symbol of hope or remembrance.

What does a sideways cross necklace mean?

There’s no separate religious meaning to a cross worn sideways. It’s the same symbol, set horizontally so it lies flat along the chain rather than hanging down. Most people choose it for one of three reasons:

• To wear faith quietly — a sideways cross reads as jewellery first, so it suits people who want their faith close but private.
• For comfort and everyday wear — it sits flat against the collarbone and layers easily with other necklaces.
• As a personal reminder — many simply see it as their cross, worn their way.

Interpretations vary, and that’s part of its appeal — what it means is up to the person wearing it.

Is a sideways cross disrespectful?

Generally, no. A sideways cross isn’t the same as an upside-down cross, and it doesn’t carry a negative meaning. Some people do prefer a cross to hang upright, and that’s a personal choice. If you’re buying for someone with strong views, a traditional upright cross or a crucifix may be the safer gift.

Cross or crucifix: what’s the difference?

A cross is the plain shape. A crucifix shows the figure of Christ on the cross, and is more common in Catholic and Orthodox traditions. Many Protestant traditions favour the empty cross as a symbol of the resurrection. Both are worn as signs of faith.

Sideways Cross Necklace

A slim 14 x 9mm cross set sideways on a dainty chain, in silver, 18K gold or 18K rose gold plated stainless steel.

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The cross as a gift

A cross is one of the most traditional faith gifts, and is often given by godparents. It’s a natural choice for:

• a christening or baptism — often kept safe until the child is old enough to wear it
• a first holy communion or confirmation
• Easter or Christmas
• a birthday or milestone, for someone whose faith matters to them

A cross needs no card to explain it, which is why it’s given so often at life’s milestones.

How to wear a cross necklace

A small cross on a fine chain sits best at the collarbone, at around 16 to 18 inches. Sideways crosses layer well with a simple chain or a name necklace, while a larger crucifix suits a longer, heavier chain worn on its own. See our necklace length guide for help choosing.

Our cross necklaces

• The Sideways Cross Necklace — a slim 14 x 9mm cross set sideways on a dainty chain, in silver, 18K gold plated or 18K rose gold plated stainless steel, with a 1" extender.
• The Personalised Cross Name Necklace — a polished cross with a name flowing from it in script, made to order. A lovely christening or confirmation keepsake.
• The Crucifix Necklace — a classic 40mm crucifix in stainless steel, in silver or 18K gold plated, with a choice of cable, rope or Cuban chain.

All arrive in an Abiza pouch, with a gift box and gift card available at checkout. You’ll find more faith pieces in our Faith Jewellery collection, and you can read about Saint Christopher and the hamsa hand in our symbol guides.

Personalised Cross Name Necklace

A cross with a name in flowing script — a keepsake for a christening, baptism or confirmation.

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Frequently asked questions

Does a sideways cross mean something different?

No. It’s the same Christian symbol, worn horizontally. The meaning is the wearer’s own.

Is it OK to wear a sideways cross if I’m not religious?

Many people wear a cross as a symbol of hope or remembrance. Just wear it with respect for what it means to others.

What is a traditional christening gift from a godparent?

A cross or crucifix necklace is one of the most traditional, often personalised with the child’s name.

What is the difference between a cross and a crucifix?

A crucifix includes the figure of Christ; a cross is the plain shape.